The erotic sex life and relationships you crave are possible!
Welcome to The Pleasure Practice, an invitation for those looking to challenge the status quo of relating and experience deeper ecstasy.
Work with Nicole, one of the leading academic theorists on
non-monogamy and playfully embodied sexuality.
The erotic sex life and relationships you crave are possible!
Welcome to The Pleasure Practice, an invitation for those looking to challenge the status quo of relating and experience deeper ecstasy.
Work with Nicole, one of the leading academic theorists on playfully embodied sexuality and non-monogamous relationships.
NICOLE'S INTENTION
If the status quo of sex and relationships feels confining to you, please know that you are not alone. You deserve to craft the sex life and relationships that meet your unique needs and dreams. I’m here to support and companion with you in the development of your embodied pleasure. If you long to feel a deeper connection to your erotic self, build expansive relationships, and live liberation, then you have found the safe and expansive space to be celebrated in all that you are.
I am a Feminist, Queer, Non-Monogamous Psychotherapist trained in Psychedelic Integration Therapy, who is passionate about helping individuals create more pleasure. My Clinical Psychology Doctoral Research explored the practice of non-monogamy, the philosophy of relationship anarchy, and the liberation of our sexual desires. I am also a Trauma-Informed Certified Yoga and Mindfulness Instructor and use this background to support you in building deeper embodiment and enhanced erotic intimacy. As a Feminist Theorist, I also examine the intersectional impacts of racism, sexism, ableism, homophobia, and other forms of oppression on our access to pleasure. I believe creating a pleasurable life requires a multi-disciplinary approach that is as expansive as you are. I have over 4,000+ hours of experience supporting others with deeper connection to their pleasure, and I am one of the leading academic theorists on expansive relationship styles and playfully embodied sexuality.
My intention is to support you in discovering and pursuing the things that bring your soul alive and give you greater zest for life. Whether you are exploring opening up your relationship, navigating jealousy and compersion in non-monogamy, expanding your sexuality through erotic power play, or are looking to heighten your access to radical ecstasy, I’m here to support your journey of building a more pleasurable life.
If you are resonating with this message and feel the calling to go deeper, fill out the form below and let’s connect to discover if working together would be a good fit for both of us.
I’m excited to meet you and get to hear your unique story.
Nicole Thompson,
MA, Clinical Psychology
Sex and Relationship Educator
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With her expertise as a leading academic theorist on playfully embodied sexuality and non-monogamous relationships, Nicole provides invaluable insights to help you design creative relationship structures and embrace your liberated sexual pleasure.
Whether you are exploring the expansiveness of non-monogamy, the empowerment of BDSM, or the liberation from shame to step into your erotic pleasure, Nicole empowers you to cultivate fulfilling connections, explore your sexuality with joy, and live authentically in alignment with your values.
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If you are ready to break free from societal limitations to embrace your pleasure and to create the most fulfilling sex life and relationships, then this opportunity is designed for you. Nicole works with individuals, couples, and polycules who are ready to liberate their erotic pleasure and enjoy both secure and expansive relationships. If you are someone who believes that another world is possible—one where your erotic desires are celebrated and fully expressed—you are in the right place.
Simply, click the “Apply to Work with Nicole” button to being. You’ll be guided to an application that features three carefully crafted questions. These questions are designed to help Nicole gain a deeper understanding of your unique desires, aspirations, and the specific goals you wish to achieve. By taking this step, you are beginning your journey to explore your deepest desires, create the relationships you crave, and reclaim your erotic power.
Opportunities to work with Nicole become available on a rolling basis. The Pleasure Practice team will contact you to schedule a free 30-minute virtual consultation with Nicole to discover if the The Pleasure Practice would be a good fit for your goals. Be on the lookout for an invitation email with further information on beginning your pleasure journey!
Sex
Nicole will guide you through a transformative journey where you'll unlock new levels of pleasure and self-expression. With personalized support, you'll delve into your erotic desires and fantasies, enhancing body awareness, and enjoying sex that is creative, playful, and deeply satisfying. Her approach ensures that every session is tailored to your needs, helping you achieve a heightened sense of freedom and pleasure. Experience the thrill of living out your desires fully and openly.
Nicole will empower you to communicate authentically and confidently in your sexual encounters. Through her expert guidance, you'll cultivate deeper intimacy and connection, embracing a creative and shame-free approach to your sexuality. Whether you seek to enhance your solo experiences, explore adventurous sex with a partner, or delve into playful kink, Nicole will support you every step of the way, ensuring you feel empowered and liberated in your sexual expression.
Nicole will help you explore and embrace your unique kinky cravings, empowering you to integrate these dynamics in your partnerships with confidence. She'll guide you in clarifying your erotic desires and building the essential connection, trust, and mutual respect needed for a fulfilling and satisfying BDSM experience.
Nicole will provide expert guidance in understanding and integrating your adventurous play and kinky experiences. She will support your personal growth and self-embodiment by delving into the psychological aspects of erotic power dynamics, consent, and self-expression. With her guidance, you'll integrate these experiences into a more empowered and confident sense of self, enhancing both your pleasure and personal growth.
Relationships
Nicole will help you cultivate deeper, more fulfilling connections through personalized support. In individual sessions, she’ll guide you in identifying your needs and crafting a roadmap to achieve your desires in your current relationship. For partners, Nicole offers focused sessions that enhance intimacy through clear communication and actionable strategies, fostering a stronger, more authentic bond with your partner(s).
Nicole can guide you in taking the first steps towards creating the relationship you truly desire. As a leading expert in non-monogamy, Nicole offers significant expertise in various relational models, including creative monogamy, open-monogamy, monogamish, open relationships, polyamory, swinging, solo-polyamory, and relationship anarchy. She’ll help you identify and design a relationship style uniquely tailored to your desires, ensuring it brings you the most pleasure, security, and fulfillment.
Nicole will help you create relationships where you experience both expansive freedom and deep security. She’ll guide you in understanding the root causes and triggers of jealousy, empowering you to manage these emotions effectively. With her support, you’ll build healthy, fulfilling connections and feel secure and confident in your non-monogamous journey.
Nicole can help you harmonize your personal needs with those of your partners. She provides tools and strategies to navigate the complexities of interconnected relationships, enhancing your communication skills and boosting overall relationship satisfaction. With Nicole’s support, you’ll achieve a fulfilling balance and deepen your connections with all of your relationships.
Working with Nicole has profoundly transformed my understanding of pleasure and sexuality. Nicole's compassionate approach illuminated how deeply my upbringing and societal norms were affecting my ability to fully enjoy and express my desires. With Nicole's support, I unlocked new levels of pleasure and playfulness in my sex life, experiencing a profound sense of sexual empowerment. My confidence has soared, and my relationships have become more authentic and fulfilling than ever. I can honestly say I've never felt more empowered and joyful in my relationships and sex life. Thank you, Nicole, for this incredible journey of self-discovery and liberation.
Emily
I can't recommend Nicole highly enough for anyone seeking guidance in non-monogamy and pleasure exploration. As a queer individual, I've often struggled to find resources that truly understand the nuances of my identity and desires. From the moment I started working with Nicole, I felt seen and validated. Her expertise provided me with invaluable tools to navigate the complexities of multiple partnerships and embrace my authentic self. Thanks to Nicole's support, I've cultivated deeper connections with my partners, explored new realms of pleasure, and reclaimed agency over my own sexuality. My only regret is not seeking her support sooner!
Alex
Our experience with Nicole has been nothing short of transformative. As a couple exploring non-monogamy, we faced numerous challenges and insecurities along the way. Nicole not only helped us navigate these hurdles with grace and compassion but also encouraged us to redefine our relationship on our own terms. Through her guidance, we've learned to communicate more effectively, prioritize pleasure in our individual lives, and embrace the beauty of non-monogamy. Our connection has deepened, our sex life has flourished, and we've never felt more aligned as partners. We're forever grateful to Nicole for helping us build a relationship that's as authentic as it is fulfilling.
Jordan and Taylor